... and stop doing things that you don't like just because others are guilting you to do them. I once heard somebody use the expression "x is shoulding all over you!" Really struck home how people try to dictate how you should act/live/think.
A simple advice is to consider the Taoist symbol of Yin-Yang. Move away from the dark and towards the light. Live in your own light!
I once knew someone who was given a short timeline. Strangely, it didn’t just change their life; it changed mine.
Ten years sounds like a gift, but it also redefines what “later” really means.
I stopped thinking of time as something to save up, and started treating it like something that leaks away whether you notice or not.
The haunting part isn’t the final day. it’s the missed days you can’t get back.
As Seneca put it: “It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste much of it.”
So for me, the question isn’t what I’d do with 10 years. It’s whether I’ll avoid wasting today.
I've got 20 years left, on average. I'll purge everything not necessary for daily life before the end. Stuff like test equipment, parts, and other things that I had previously kept as mementos or spares will be given away, or pitched.
Don't leave a ton of shit for your heirs, they'll have to hire someone to throw it out. It's not valuable, really.
Other than that.. just try to help those who need it, and do my best to make the world a better place, one repair at a time.
I think I would go through my giant list of ideas and projects and figure which 1 or 2 are truly important. 10 years is long enough to do just about anything, but probably only one thing to a serious extent.
Probably no need to work anymore so will quit next Monday.
And then do some financial planning for the family.
And then…kinda sad that I actually don’t have a strong passion to pursue. I’m soulless. I have some hobbies and claimed that I wanted to do a lot of things but never had passion for long term.
A lack of time and energy has a way of killing interest and desire. I expect if you managed to attain or retain more of both of those you’d find some level of passion. And passion doesn’t have to be earth shattering. There’s a lot of joy to be found in the small stuff.
Finally get around to buying my rock etcher and find every cave made from solid hard rock high and low to carve the contents of my offline blog into along with a template to help future civilizations interpret English.
See, I'm 63. My current life expectancy is more like 18 years, so 10 years would be... maybe a bit short? But not so short that I can claim to be really ripped off. But the other side is, a guarantee that that I'd make 10 years is better than my pessimistic scenarios, so that would be a step up.
What would I do? Probably retire today. The problem with retirement planning is that you don't know how long you're planning for; if you did know, it would simplify a lot.
I'd make an effort to spend more time with my kids. It's not just that I only have 10 years - they also have only 10 years to have me around.
I am a Christian. I'd try to pass on some of what I've learned to the younger generations. (I mean, maybe more in general too, but what I've learned about coding, say, isn't going to change anybody's life.)
I'd probably watch what I eat less. That piece of chocolate cake won't be what kills me.
I'd hopefully be more patient toward people. There are a lot of things that aren't worth getting mad at them over.
"guaranteed the ten years" makes my mind leap: if you're guaranteed the ten years, you could take up ridiculous hobbies that are extremely non-survivable for mortals. like, go skinny dipping in a volcano or something. the monkey's paw curls. i guess the catch would be you'd get 10 years of agonising pain.
Not worry about it. Ten years is an entire marriage for some people. Just live.
Many of us don't have ten years left and don't know it. Live. Live now. Whatever that means to you, quit waiting on something to happen. Do it.
... and stop doing things that you don't like just because others are guilting you to do them. I once heard somebody use the expression "x is shoulding all over you!" Really struck home how people try to dictate how you should act/live/think.
A simple advice is to consider the Taoist symbol of Yin-Yang. Move away from the dark and towards the light. Live in your own light!
I once knew someone who was given a short timeline. Strangely, it didn’t just change their life; it changed mine. Ten years sounds like a gift, but it also redefines what “later” really means.
I stopped thinking of time as something to save up, and started treating it like something that leaks away whether you notice or not.
The haunting part isn’t the final day. it’s the missed days you can’t get back.
As Seneca put it: “It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste much of it.”
So for me, the question isn’t what I’d do with 10 years. It’s whether I’ll avoid wasting today.
I've got 20 years left, on average. I'll purge everything not necessary for daily life before the end. Stuff like test equipment, parts, and other things that I had previously kept as mementos or spares will be given away, or pitched.
Don't leave a ton of shit for your heirs, they'll have to hire someone to throw it out. It's not valuable, really.
Other than that.. just try to help those who need it, and do my best to make the world a better place, one repair at a time.
I think I would go through my giant list of ideas and projects and figure which 1 or 2 are truly important. 10 years is long enough to do just about anything, but probably only one thing to a serious extent.
Probably no need to work anymore so will quit next Monday.
And then do some financial planning for the family.
And then…kinda sad that I actually don’t have a strong passion to pursue. I’m soulless. I have some hobbies and claimed that I wanted to do a lot of things but never had passion for long term.
A lack of time and energy has a way of killing interest and desire. I expect if you managed to attain or retain more of both of those you’d find some level of passion. And passion doesn’t have to be earth shattering. There’s a lot of joy to be found in the small stuff.
Is that 10 good years followed by sudden death or is that 10 years of gradual decline? Makes a difference!
Finally get around to buying my rock etcher and find every cave made from solid hard rock high and low to carve the contents of my offline blog into along with a template to help future civilizations interpret English.
Hiking the PCT has been a dream and I’d use the time to train and finally do it.
I would travel with my loved ones as a way to make some lasting memories with them.
I would finally visit every national park in the US (even the kinda BS ones like gateway arch and Indiana dunes).
I’d finally get serious about picking up my instrument again and try to play with an orchestra one more time in my life.
This is how I'm acting now because of my p(doom)
Turns out, I don't act any differently.
Load up on life insurance with a ten-year term.
Seek out strange new worlds?
Depends. Am I guaranteed the ten years?
See, I'm 63. My current life expectancy is more like 18 years, so 10 years would be... maybe a bit short? But not so short that I can claim to be really ripped off. But the other side is, a guarantee that that I'd make 10 years is better than my pessimistic scenarios, so that would be a step up.
What would I do? Probably retire today. The problem with retirement planning is that you don't know how long you're planning for; if you did know, it would simplify a lot.
I'd make an effort to spend more time with my kids. It's not just that I only have 10 years - they also have only 10 years to have me around.
I am a Christian. I'd try to pass on some of what I've learned to the younger generations. (I mean, maybe more in general too, but what I've learned about coding, say, isn't going to change anybody's life.)
I'd probably watch what I eat less. That piece of chocolate cake won't be what kills me.
I'd hopefully be more patient toward people. There are a lot of things that aren't worth getting mad at them over.
"guaranteed the ten years" makes my mind leap: if you're guaranteed the ten years, you could take up ridiculous hobbies that are extremely non-survivable for mortals. like, go skinny dipping in a volcano or something. the monkey's paw curls. i guess the catch would be you'd get 10 years of agonising pain.
> The problem with retirement planning is that you don't know how long you're planning for.
Live it up now! When you are old, frail, bad eyesight, little stamina -- you don't need much. Just a comfortable environment.
You need enough to pay the medical bills...
become a president and destroy any nation and everything that brings joy to others[/S]
maybe not /s ? But you forgot enriching offspring and in-laws and certain rich, aggressive lobbying groups.